It seems like I am always the one to 'stay positive'. When people close to me (and not so close to me) are down, depressed, negative, and generally angry with the world, I try to be the one with the positive thoughts, suggestions, etc. I may as well beat my head against the wall. I guess I just need to back off, let them know that I'm here for them, and keep my mouth shut. Too much emotional involvement on my part can suck me dry.